Your marriage isn’t the problem. Childhood trauma is.
It's time to break free from the hidden wounds keeping you trapped in an endless cycle of tension and triggers.
Imagine understanding, for the first time, why you're at your breaking point with the person you love most.
You're finally about to discover what no marriage counselor or relationship book has been able to tell you: the real reason behind your relationship struggles and the exact path to healing.
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maybe you're dealing with this right now
It's Tuesday night. The house is finally quiet. You and your spouse sit in the same room but might as well be on different planets.
You made one comment about the dishes, and somehow it exploded into that same fight you've had a thousand times. Now you're both checked out—you, scrolling mindlessly on your phone while anxiety burns in your gut; them, suddenly fascinated by whatever's on TV.
The silence feels like a wall between you.
You love this person. You really do. So why does everything feel so hard? Why does it seem like you're speaking different languages? Why do the smallest comments trigger the biggest reactions?
It's hurting because of unhealed childhood wounds you didn't even know you had—wounds that collided with your partner's wounds the moment you met and created what I call an Energetic Trauma-Bond.
This isn’t your fault. No one taught you this.
The fights that blow up over nothing?
The triggers that make you crazy?
The patterns you can't break no matter how hard you try?
They all come from wounds you got long before you met your spouse. Your childhood experiences—even ones you wouldn't call "traumatic"—left profound and lasting damage to your masculine and feminine energies. This has warped how your nervous system handles stress, how you love, and who you are in relationships.
These wounds have kept you trapped in a toxic cycle you’ve been powerless to escape... until now.
Introducing my transformative group coaching program:
The Daring Deeply Healing Collective
A 6-month journey to heal your childhood wounds and transform your relationship from the inside out
The Healing Collective isn’t marriage counseling that goes nowhere. It’s not about surface-level communication tricks or compromise tactics.
Inside this exclusive membership, you’ll get direct coaching through a trauma-informed approach that hits the root of what’s actually keeping you stuck—your childhood wounds and how they’ve twisted your masculine and feminine energies.
For months, you’ve watched my videos on Instagram and TikTok, getting bits and pieces about why your relationship is so hard. Now it’s time to go deeper. To get the raw, personalized guidance that will actually transform your relationship, not just put a band-aid on it.
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Imagine...
What if you could wake up six months from now and feel a real connection to the person lying beside you. You understand your triggers so deeply that when they hit, you can pause instead of explode, creating space for compassion instead of combat.
Imagine knowing who you are, what you need, and how to ask for it without guilt or fear. You can see your partner's triggers for what they really are - not attacks on you, but their own wounds screaming for attention.
Imagine not walking on eggshells anymore—where you can actually talk without it turning into a blowout, where silence doesn't feel like a ticking bomb, where you can disagree without wrecking your entire weekend.
Imagine breaking free from the cycle that's kept you trapped for years.
This isn't some fairy tale. This is what happens when you finally heal your childhood wounds and get your masculine and feminine energies back in balance.
This is what becomes possible in the Daring Deeply Healing Collective.
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What’s Inside the Collective?
Group Coaching Calls with David Lea
This is where the magic happens. Every other week, you'll join me (David Lea) live on Zoom. This isn't some pre-recorded content or assistant-led session—this is direct access to me, your coach, the guy whose videos you’ve been tracking on TikTok and Instagram. This is your chance to get my help in real time.
Through the hot seat coaching calls, you'll get my unfiltered guidance directly. I'll call out your specific wounds, make sense of your triggers, and give you real strategies that actually work.
Even when you're not in the hot seat, you'll learn from watching other members' breakthroughs. Sometimes the biggest "ah-ha" moments come from seeing someone else work through the exact same struggles you're dealing with.
Exclusive Weekly Text Support
As an Healing Collective member, you'll get my exclusive weekly texts with wisdom, encouragement, and accountability that nobody else gets—not my social followers, not my email list, only my Healing Collective.
These texts will keep you locked in on your healing, hit you with timely insights, and remind you that you're not alone in this journey.
This level of direct access and support is unprecedented and reflects my commitment to your transformation.
Foundational Video Training Library
Get immediate access to a full library of critical video lessons, designed to walk you step-by-step through the journey toward healing. First you’ll establish a clear understanding of childhood trauma and how you – yes, you – are carrying old wounds that affect your decisions and reactions as an adult.
Then you’ll discover how those wounds create something I call the “Inverted Marriage Dynamic,” which is the root of your relationship conflicts.
And finally, you’ll learn what wounded feminine and masculine energies look like in your own life and in your partner’s, so you can begin righting the ship.
BONUS: Polarity 101Â Signature Course
As a Healing Collective member, you'll also get full access to my bestselling course, Polarity 101.
This comprehensive program dives deep into relationship polarity, helping you understand exactly how you've been wounded in your masculine and feminine energies and how to restore balance.Â
This course alone has transformed countless relationships, and it's included with your membership at no additional cost.Â
Meet David Lea
I know firsthand the impact of unhealed childhood wounding on relationships.
After experiencing my own journey of transformation, I developed a unique trauma-informed polarity coaching process to help others break free from painful relationship patterns. Today, I guide clients to heal their deepest wounds and reclaim their authentic masculine and feminine energies.
Are you ready for your own transformation?
No matter how lost, frustrated, or hopeless you feel, you’re never too late to heal. Join my Healing Collective today and receive real solutions for breaking free from childhood wounding, restoring your relationships, and living a life that's lighter, and more joy-filled.
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Real change is happening for people just like you
“I’m a better communicator”
What started out to help my relationship with my wife turned into just helping me overall in general. David helped me understand me, and I've grown a lot through it. My relationship with my wife is so much better now, it's helped me business-wise, and I'm a better communicator. Ultimately this coaching helps you in every aspect of your life.
-Â JASON
“I see my own blind spots”
I have a growing self-confidence, a stronger voice, a more willingness to be assertive. I understand my roles and responsibility as a husband better now than I did before. I see my own blind spots.
-Â ALEX
“I’ve experienced enormous healing”
However much I've spent with David is well worth it. I've experienced enormous healing. There's this massive liberation from feeling responsible for other people and feeling like I have to constantly manage an emergency.
-Â STEVE
“I’m finding the joy in everything”
Before coaching with David, I was not a very pleasant person. I was always super anxious, always worried about everything. Today, oh my gosh, I'm just driving in my car, smiling for no reason. I'm finding the joy in everything.
-Â Kelli
“It makes you forgive yourself”
Once you address it and really learn that that trauma doesn't define you, that you can overcome it and that you're not a victim, and that your body was just doing what it needed to do to get through some really hard times, it really makes you forgive yourself and forgive [others].
-Â CASIE
“Mind blowing”
Realizing that things could change for me was mind blowing. Every little change and growth step brought great things for me. So why wouldn’t you want to do this?
- KATIE
“Changed my life”
Our culture is so masculine driven, and so all of us women end up in that space too. And so getting back to my feminine side, that's changed my life, changed my marriage.
-Â CHRISSIE
“I am less triggered”
With David's help, a lot of boundaries have been set in place. I am less triggered when it comes to tough conversations. I'm more assertive, less passive.
-Â TERRY
“Better than any therapist”
I thought I’d done everything I could before coming to David and then realized that I hadn’t. I’ve got to say that what he does, in my opinion, is better than any therapist that I’ve ever had in my life.
- LEIGH
“It’s okay to be me”
I'm a very masculine man, and that had become a dirty word in my marriage. David helped me get my confidence back that the way I was thinking wasn't wrong. He made me realize it was okay to think what I thought. It's okay to be me.
-Â KEITH
So to recap... When you enrolL today
Here’s What You’ll Experience
That’s a total value of $8,900.
And you can get it all for a fraction of what you would invest to work with me one-on-one
Choose the best plan for you
Enrollment is for six months of access to the Healing Collective
A final notE
Right now, you’re at a crossroads.
You can keep doing what you've been doing—trying the same useless fixes, feeling the same hurt, getting triggered by the same things, and watching your relationship circle the drain.
Or you can choose something different.
- You can choose to see the real root of your relationship problems.
- You can choose to heal the wounds that have affected every relationship you've ever had.
- You can choose to break free from patterns that have kept you stuck for years.
Let me be straight: this work isn't easy. Facing childhood wounds takes guts. Changing deep patterns takes commitment.
But I promise you this—you are worthy of healing. Period.
You are worthy of better than the relationship you have right now. You are worthy of knowing who you really are. You are worthy of breaking free from the same old cycles that have kept you stuck for years.
Healing starts today. Not when things get worse. Not when you've tried everything else.
Today.
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