We can’t save your marriage.
*but we can help you
For centuries, men and women have been searching for ways to live in more harmony with one another. From historical books and modern-day movies to romance podcasts and ancient astrology, everyone’s got their idea of what it takes to create more peace and balance in relationships—but the real question is, what actually works?
These aren’t the real issues – they are simply SYMPTOMS.
Men aren’t from Mars, and women aren’t from Venus.
SHE ISN’T AN ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT, AND HE’S NOT JUST AVOIDANT.
IT’S NOT THAT YOUR COMMUNICATION IS TERRIBLE.
OR, THAT YOUR LOVE LANGUAGES ARE MISALIGNED.
IT’S NOT THE BUSY SCHEDULES OR THE LACK OF QUALITY TIME.
IT’S NOT THE KIDS OR YOUR OVERBEARING IN-LAWS…
Truth is...
No.
SHE ISN’T AN ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT, AND HE’S NOT JUST AVOIDANT.
IT’S NOT THAT YOUR COMMUNICATION IS TERRIBLE.
OR, THAT YOUR LOVE LANGUAGES ARE MISALIGNED.
IT’S NOT THE BUSY SCHEDULES OR THE LACK OF QUALITY TIME.
IT’S NOT THE KIDS OR YOUR OVERBEARING IN-LAWS…
Men aren’t from Mars, and women aren’t from Venus.
he’s not an Enneagram 4, and she’s not an 8.
sHe’s not a rigid Virgo, and he’s not a fiery Scorpio.
Both of you are carrying unprocessed, unhealed, childhood trauma that has pulled you AWAY from who you were created to become.
That wounding has you living off-balance, misaligned, and functioning from a state of survival mode.
And here’s the truth: these wounds were present within you long before the two of you ever met.
Unless identified, these patterns will continue to recirculate within your body and nervous system and present as physical and emotional triggers in your relationships.
These triggers then collide with your spouse’s triggers and the result is an ongoing trauma bond.
Marriages don’t get saved.
Inverted marriage Dynamic
These trauma bonds are exactly what’s trapping you in this inverted marriage dynamic.
But the good news is – it can be reversed. It starts when both of you make the choice to commit to your own individual healing.
People heal.
this leads to an
the
Controlling
Combative
Critical
Emotionally Unavailable
Overly-Competitive
Defensive
Demanding
Hyper-Independent
Inverted marriage Dynamic
looks like this:
wounded masculine energy:
Passive
Appeasing
Indecisive
Dependent on Others
Easily Influenced
Desperate for Validation
Complains without Action
Without Purpose or Discipline
signs a woman is in her
wounded feminine energy:
signs a man is in his
you're not alone.
If this sounds familiar,
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You can only heal yourself.
You can’t fix your marriage
